Like, seriously. Sometimes I get so dismissive of myself, like what I'm feeling isn't real if I'm not doing anything/enough about it, which I can identify as obviously ridiculous and untrue when I'm being reasonable, but it still helps so much to hear what you said. *flops dramatically with relief* My therapist, who is very nice and also very cis, is always encouraging me to try things, and sometimes that's helpful, but... safety is really a very, very relevant concept here.
I am probably going to save this comment and read it, like, a bunch of times, thank you.
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I'm unfortunately even worse at coming up with general guidelines for other people to use than I am at asking for them, but in case it needs spelling out, you're doing pretty okay.
omg that's like the best thing you could have said
Date: 2014-09-18 04:53 am (UTC)I am probably going to save this comment and read it, like, a bunch of times, thank you.
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I'm unfortunately even worse at coming up with general guidelines for other people to use than I am at asking for them, but in case it needs spelling out, you're doing pretty okay.